2022.01.25 01:49 kbone17 ✋Struggling newbie here: total = 0, total += 1 or x or x[i]…
I am having a hard time grasping why we set a global or local variable to 0 then += or -= to 1 or an element in an abstract data type. How does it work and in what situations is it needed? I know it’s useful to keeping count or summing elements but how does it work?? Can’t find any resource to read or watch on it.
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2022.01.25 01:49 JohnDoe1185 I don't know what's the right thing to do.
Hi, i just discovered this subreddit and by reading some posts a lot of thoughs that i buried years ago are coming up.. i really would like your point of view.
I was adopted very early, my mother left me at the hospital at birth, and when I was 5 month old I was adopted by my parents.
I knew that i was adopted since I can remember, i had a loving and caring family and my brother was adopted too (from another country).
I was not told any details, i just knew that my family could not care for me, and that they gave me up for adoption; my mother told me to have a sense of gratitude towards my biological parents, and i grow up with that.
I had so many questions, and a feeling of missing something, but i had a loving family, i felt lucky, and every time I asked questions my parents where so profoundly hurt and traumatized (even though they tried to hide it) that i learned to not talk about that to them, it's a given, but at the same time a taboo.
When i was 18 years old my uncle wanted to talk with me, and told me that i was old enough to knew the truth, since my parents didn't want to told it to me.
My biological parents were in the same city of mine, and i was the 7th child of a deeply damaged family, with a violent, always drunk father and in poverty.
My father wanted an abortion, and my mother convinced him to not go in that direction and to give me in adoption.
After i was given to my actual parents my mother changed her mind, and tried to get me back, but a family friend that had connections and knew how deeply damaged my biological family was did everything to cover up my traces, my biological mother could not find me, and after some time passed she didn't have legally thee way to do so.
As you can imagine that was deeply shocking to me, but i didn't know what to do with that information, because of these reasons:
1) I didn't fully trust my uncle story, it was a bit too romanced and adventurous to feel the whole truth.
2) I was (and i am also now) too scared to ask my parents, when i asked them in the past their reaction was scary, my mother changed behavior for months, i saw my father crying for the first time after asking.. their reactions traumatized me every time.
3) Even if i reach out to my family (because i would really like closure, i would like to know my brothers and sisters) what if they are dangerous people? What do i really know about them? Would i put at risk my family by doing this? How about they begin asking for money or they begin to be pushy and want to get in touch with my family who did not chose this?
As I said in the beginning, a lot of these thoughts were buried when me and my wife had my first daughter, we have 3 children, and i didn't expected that, but seeing my biological resemblance in them gave me a lot of peace and closure, not 100%, but really a lot.
Now I feel i have also them to protect from eventually digging up potential drama by reaching out my biological family.
But still, reading the stories here made me conscious that even after all these years, i still need closure, i still have a hole.. but i don't know what to do about it, thank you for let me share my experience, i would really like your opinions on that.
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2022.01.25 01:49 smodgie hmm
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2022.01.25 01:49 ScatmanJohnPart2 'Flesh and Blood' CHAPTER SEVEN IS UP!
Chapter 7 of 'Flesh and Blood' is up!
This chapter, we delve into the friendship and partnership between Otis and Cecile. PLEASE BE WARNED: THERE IS A GRAPHIC DEPICTION OF PHYSICAL ASSAULT AND HOMOPHOBIA IN THIS CHAPTER! Please be advised when reading!
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2022.01.25 01:49 Wilhiem1 21/PST/[PC] Looking for PoE friends!
Hi there! There's a new league starting soon, so I decided to make a post to hopefully find some friends to play PoE with!
If you're a beginner or you've never played (or even heard of) PoE before that's totally fine! It's always fun to teach people and I'd love to show you the ropes :D. Just note that it's not everyone's cup of tea, and it is one of those games where you can sink hundreds of hours and still not know very much, but on the plus side it's completely free to play so you're not losing anything by giving it a try!
If you have played a lot of PoE, that's great! I've been playing since Heist League and I'm always looking for new friends to play with :). It'd be amazing to find someone that I can league start with, but even just having friends to maybe map or boss with would be awesome <3.
Thank you for taking the time to read through this post! Feel free to add me on discord if you're interested. My username is Wilhiem#8108
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2022.01.25 01:49 UKnoAries why is the 3500 dollars for a 4cm fan
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2022.01.25 01:49 nerual2700 Needing life advice: get an apartment or save?
Hi Sloots I really would love some opinions. Currently will be graduating college December 2022 and have a lease next to my college until june. Plans for my last semester were originally to move home and commute (I am dreading it a little bit, parents are alcoholics/controlling and they normally have negative impacts on my mental health/we just get along better in separate spaces). But my friend who is a junior asked if I wanted to get a 3 bedroom lease next to school again and have our own rooms. This would mean I have a lease for 6 months after college when I'm working a real job.
I am torn on what I want. I really love being away from home and being independent, it keeps me sane and was the major reason I moved on campus. But, I know if I stayed home I would have less bills to pay so less stress in that regard but otherwise I am probably going to go crazy. Is it a really bad decision to stay on campus and live with 2 girls in college? Or does it even matter? My sister told me I should commute and just get an apartment on my own as soon as I can. Please help
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2022.01.25 01:49 catpooptv Primos' Al Madrigal On Diversity and the Roots of His New Superhero Team
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2022.01.25 01:49 Royal-Author-669 Looking for some help
2022.01.25 01:49 resume80 27M Looking to meet new people!
Hi, I moved to NYC a few months ago and I'm looking to meet new people! I enjoy climbing, working out, concerts, drinking, movies, escape rooms, and playing games(e.g. video games, board games, etc.). I am always down to try new activities though. Currently living in downtown Manhattan. Feel free to post here or DM me and we'll hangout soon!
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2022.01.25 01:49 tarhunabadeer Plug your clubs !!
I'm in a few clubs rn but looking to join a couple more, can't really tell from the organization website what's active and accepting new members but I'm down to try out new activities. If you're in a cool club or activity here plz shout it out !
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2022.01.25 01:49 SlipperyThong Dumping on Peter Doocy has always had bipartisan support!
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2022.01.25 01:49 Diligent_Car1313 Online Payment Systems that dont Report to IRS
I am a General Contractor and I am encouraging my Subs to sign up for a mobile app that accept my payments to them from a debit or credit card for convenience (I do not want to drive to drop off checks). However, a few of them are VERY hesitant to sign up for apps like Paypal, Square, Joist, Jobber, etc because those apps submit payment info to the IRS and that is what my subs do NOT want. Any suggestions on how to get around this?? The main point is that I do not want to cut checks anymore and I would like to pay them online with a card. Zelle or venmo wont work because the limits are too low.
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2022.01.25 01:49 JoukovDefiant Convair/General Dynamics GLCM (BGM-109G Ground Launched Cruise Missile (1979)./Convair/General Dynamics.
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2022.01.25 01:49 inspiredtoinspire Is Perspective A Good Or Bad Thing
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2022.01.25 01:49 phillipWaveRadio lil Fappy X: Behind the Fap
2022.01.25 01:49 tinyshark84 I haven’t had time to design much lately, but I’m obsessed with this one. 🥰
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2022.01.25 01:49 Hoochpotato OKC was down by 20 and came back to lose by 1 😤
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2022.01.25 01:49 Hhourpodcast H-Hour Podcast #157 James Mazzoni-Dalton – soldier, submariner, Yompathon
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2022.01.25 01:49 TheHamBurglar71 My custom Blu Ray cases for Criterion Godzilla Showa Collection came in today
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2022.01.25 01:49 RSpringer227 From the Birmingham subreddit
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2022.01.25 01:49 ThatOneGuy8569 Should I worry?
Sometimes when I sit down for a little bit and then stand up I feel like I’m flying and then I have to sit back down for a little bit. Is it just blood rushing to my head or could it be something else?
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2022.01.25 01:49 SpicyDayCare Challenges not counted?
Love the game, first games I've really played online and enjoyed. Does it have its faults? Of course, haven't seen a game without a bug or a feature that isn't loved. Just wanted to throw my own little rant on.
Doing the last normal challenge for this week, had 3 pistol kills to get in Attrition. Seemed like I did it and enjoyed the game. Only 2 apparently, interesting, seeing how I got the medal for 5 pistol kills.
Am I missing something or is this a bug that everyone is pretty much aware of?
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2022.01.25 01:49 Skiski661 100lbs heavier and 8 years later...its good to be posting online again!
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