2022.01.27 20:32 justfoundnofap Glad I found this group. Hoping to get advice, motivation, and provide the same support
I am so glad I found this. I was actually googling help for compulsive masturbation and porn addiction, and found this, so I created an account to join this community. I would love to share my situation with other non judgemental people who 'get it' and really hoping to get some advice since I am right at the beginning of this journey, and hopefully find a community so we can support each other.
I am a 37 yo bi guy, and have struggled with this for as long as I can remember. I masturbated compulsively when I hit puberty and this has continued my entire life. I don't remember a time when I haven't masturbated, and I am averaging about 3-5 times a day. As a result of this, I have NEVER been able to orgasm without masturbating myself. Actually, the only time this hasn't occurred was once during a hand job, but I did most of the work until the end. I usually make an excuse like 'I am just not that interested in penetrative sex' or 'I take ages to cum' (the latter is true) and I take ciallis to maintain an erection during sex, otherwise I just can't, presumably because I am just so used to gripping my own parts and only enjoying sex that way.
There have even been times where I have ended up with a chaffing.. I usually slow it down so that can all heal, but I don't even stop entirely then. It's crazy :(
I fear that I will never be able to enjoy sex in the traditional way, and as I have recently re-entered into a relationship I want to be forever, I just feel like this is going to come up as an issue eventually. I know that it has been an issue for people in the past, who think there is something wrong with them when I can't get off, and I know my partner craves more than what we are doing.
I just don't know where to start. I feel really irritable if I don't and it's just become such a habit. I don't even know if I can fall asleep without doing it now.. I guess my goal is just to make progress. Achieve at least power over my habit short term, but ultimately my goal is to find a way to enjoy sex traditionally. I want to be able to enjoy myself if someone is trying to make me cum, instead of always doing it myself. I am just scared it's been so long that it may be too late. I would love to hear from people who have 'been there done that', even if you are still working through it. A start would be helpful for me. Thanks all <3
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2022.01.27 20:32 stankmanly Florida Man on Drugs Tried to Claim His Bag of Syringes Was "For Fishing"
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2022.01.27 20:32 StrictlyBusinessTCG Is The Order A Rabbit Re:Edit 1 box pull
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2022.01.27 20:32 Rainbo_Reddit Pet sim x Fanmade pets ( I really am a artist )
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2022.01.27 20:32 Used_Border_4910 Who do you guys think is the best pound for pound wrestler in all of wrestling right now?
What I mean is, pound for pound, in REAL combat, who do you think would be the best fighter in all of wrestling? It can be anyone across any promotion, or even the Indy scene. A lot of wrestlers have have MMA, boxing, and many other types of combat backgrounds. So let’s just say for the sake of argument two wrestlers are put into an octagon, who’d be the hardest to beat?
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2022.01.27 20:32 i_am_sparta06 Building a budget gaming pc
Hey, I want to build a budget gaming pc but know near nothing. I currently have a crappy dell potato laptop but it can barely run anything. The help would be much appreciated.
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2022.01.27 20:32 Oonacx all tarecgosa deck lol
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2022.01.27 20:32 Wildmanrem What bars offer the best deals on a Thursday night/where to go on a thursday
2022.01.27 20:32 Cocoa_Pebbles Dodging 6 golden gun shots with a little side-steppin'
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2022.01.27 20:32 pablodior VidiQ ir TubeBuddy for type beat YT channel
I have tubebuddy, I tried the free verison and now I'm thinking about buying the paid version(idk what is called), so I have less than 100subscribers, I know that views are not going to come over night. I did some research and people were saying that VidiQ got some options with the free version that Tubebuddy has that with the paid version. I dont't know what to do now, lemme know.
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2022.01.27 20:32 GertrudeEatsPizza My second crochet toy, I posted here with my first one and now I have a unicorn! I love how it turned out!
2022.01.27 20:32 Tritonaice Yes sirrrr
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2022.01.27 20:32 jobsinanywhere Litecoin's descent to the $104-level could be followed by this...
2022.01.27 20:32 PotRoastBoobs “Nathaniel Hackett is a dynamic leader and coach whose intelligence, innovation and charisma impressed us from the very start of this process.” - Broncos GM George Paton
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2022.01.27 20:32 RazzleDazzle722 Georgina Rodriguez is everything Hilaria wanted to be. Unknown Spanish beauty falls in love with a billionaire, international superstar, Cristiano Ronaldo, and is catapulted to fame. She has a bunch of kids, is open about surrogates, has 30M followers on IG, and now has a reality show on Netflix.
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2022.01.27 20:32 emibemiz Is Aspen bedding or Coco Substrate better for Corns?
I have had my corn on aspen for years but hes getting an upgrade and I’m just wondering if coco substrate is better. I know its softer and super easy to burrow in & i like the more natural feel. Any reasons not to get coco substrate? Thanks :)
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2022.01.27 20:32 zg3cg A GHOST HAS BEEN LIVING In This Comedian's Apartment | The AUXORO Podcast
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2022.01.27 20:32 Uga1992 Thought Matt would like this
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2022.01.27 20:32 D_Gandy How much of the Ride out Crew could we realistically have here? Is Jeudy a possibility?
2022.01.27 20:32 ilikefrenchhorns Advice for a college kid that is (maybe) in need of a future seasonal job.
I have worked at my current job for about three and a half years, and after promising me that I would not have to work saturday nights ever again, they just asked me today if I would be okay with working every other saturday night the next couple months since one girl asked for every saturday off the next two months. I told them that I thought that was ridiculous that someone could ask for that many weekends off in a row. We also have another manager that doesn't ever work weekends, mostly because she is good friends with the owner who makes the schedule and because she has worked there the longest so she thinks she is above working weekends. I pointed this out and it was explained to me that she is taking more college classes this semester and can't take up more hours. As if she would ever do homework on a saturday night, but I digress. I eventually caved and said fine, I could do every other saturday night. However, stuff like this has happened more than once now and has slowly been driving me up a wall.
For reference, they promised me I'd have saturday nights off forever because over the entire last spring and summer I would work fridays, close saturdays, and then open till 5:00 on sundays. The clopens absolutely killed me but I sucked it up and worked them and was rewarded with the promise of no more saturday closes. So far this school year, my weekend working schedule has been closing on fridays and then opening till 5:00 on both saturdays and sundays. I am a 20-year old college kid that is graduating with my Associate's degree this spring and my plan has always been to work at the store until the end of this upcoming summer when I will have to move away to go to a different college.
I am not sure if this is even the right sub for this. But i was just wondering if anyone had any advice. I plan to bring it up again to my boss once I see her in person about how I already work a lot on the weekends and how the other manager hasn't worked a weekend close for the entirety of the time I've been employed there. However, I am leaning towards calling it a career and looking for new jobs. As I mentioned, I'm leaving town at the end of this summer so I don't need a super long-term job. If I got a new job, I'd like to at least match my current wage of $14 plus tips, which usually equates to ~$18-$22 depending on how busy it was. I know this is a pretty good wage and would be hard to match. If anyone has any advice on how I could go about finding a good new job, how I could soothe things over at my current one, or direct me to a different sub where I could also be helped then I would really appreciate it!
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2022.01.27 20:32 bringbackoldreddit8 Why is everyone leaving :(
2022.01.27 20:32 s11ee Hey guy! Been active here since the beginning. Got my assets in silver, recently quit my job and moving to Colombia for at least a year for my wife and doing some missions work. Would really appreciate if you checked out our channel! Thanks and keep stacking! The Beginning - Chapter 1
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2022.01.27 20:32 MutedHospital Bike courier's rule
2022.01.27 20:32 Electronic_Delay_646 French President Emmanuel Macron has announced that the overseas territories will receive the Novavax vaccine, without mRNA, as a priority, which may be a response to the resistance to vaccination that affects some territories
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2022.01.27 20:32 torohex7777 Finished Falling into Infinity chest tattoo
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