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2021.11.29 12:02 samuelma What do you ask for at the barbers?

So for almost my whole life one of my mums mates has cut my hair. I'm now far away from them and honestly found sitting in their kitchen kinda weird all along. So my question is, and im aware this is mad. But
how do barbers work?
I'm not overly concerned what it looks like tbh just less shaggy, shorter on the sides and a bit longer on top. Do you still have to say numbers? can i just ask for whatever the last few 20 something guys asked for? am i massively overthinking this?
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2021.11.29 12:02 badaboobadabing hey guys. Lookin for an advice how to ask this girl out.

Hey guys so my friends and I go to this huge mall with lots of shops like once a month. (its a 60km drive to the other city so we go to the movies etc when we are there. Like a whole day of hanging out together ) and we like to walk around shops and well pretty much look at whats "trendy" now.
Ooook sooo there is this shop that we always visit that sells clothes and a really cute girl works there. there is always like 5-6 girls working there at the same time and when you get in the one that doesnt have a customer atm will approach you and try to "help" you.
We went there yesterday and that cute girl was already helping some customers so another girl came up to ask and to assist my friend (he was buying jeans).
While he was in changing room I was browsing trough the store. That cute girl I was talking about looked at me smiled and said Hey ,whats up. She remembered us from before. So I cacually walked over to her and we talked for like a minute (She had to go assist the customers) . Basically we talked about nothing lol hows work, I see its busy yeah etc. Now I dont even know her name or anything this was the first time we talked that it wasnt her assisting us.
Ive been single for 2.5 years now. I went trough a hard breakup that hurt me really bad. Ive been focusing on my self all this time , got new hobbies, new friends, better job, new car, lookin for my own place now,ive been working out so im in better shape now at 29 than I ever was haha and I would like to try to start datin again.
I have no problem talkin to and meeting girls but I just dont know how to turn that random talk into flirting /asking them out. I didnt have to date since I was 22 and my last ex gf came to me when I wasnt lookin for one. so Im ooout of the game.
Ive read that you shouldnt ask girls out at their place of work which I believe is true but there are exceptions. How would you guys proceed with this ? I dont actually have a plan but Im thinking of approaching her just asking for her name etc. to get to know her a little better and see if she is even single.
Any advice is welcome.
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2021.11.29 12:02 miekmeise I stalked someone and I need advice.

I am 21 years old and realised what fucked up shit I did the last years. When I was 16 I felt in love with a girl from Highschool. I adored her in my maths class and it was first harmless. She is a very cool person. She is so optimistic, enthusiastic, extrovert, kind, wouldn’t hurt a fly, she has this cute smile while talking , creative, a talented artist and very intelligent and beautiful. But she has also problems . She has very strong anorexia ...When I had to work with her in class once time I slowly developed a crush on her and fall for her. That was all harmless but it got more extreme over weeks. One day I searched for her Instagram because I was to shy to just ask her. I found her account but it was privat. So I made a fake account and wanted to follow her. She accepted by request and I became obsessed!! She has over 300 photos posted on her account. I spend hours watching them and my whole body was shaking, I was so in love with that creativeness, beautiful girl with so much talent. I took screenshots of all her pictures and created an album in my gallery. I just sat there hours just holding her pictures, gently touching the screen as if I could actually touch her. Or spend my time daydreaming about her actually being my girlfriend. All I wanted was to get to know her and to stop being that shy loser that doesn’t talk to her. I wanted to hold her, hug her, protect her, hold her hand all day. I wanted to listen to her all day and I wanted to help her to get rid of that anorexia... I didn’t managed to even talk once to her for months. My grades were very bad and I had to skip school. So the last school year I couldn’t spend with her. I couldn’t stand it not being able to see her and I almost got suicidal. She was not only the girl I loved but also my identity. I idealised her and tried to become exactly like her. I copied her style , her interests , talked like her ....that helped me to feel closer to her. I seriously also developed anorexia! Then she kicked my fake account because she made her account only available for friends. My world broke down. I started to go back to my old school and stalked her in the breaks. I had to see her. Online I found an account of her mother and I screenshoted the pics of her her mother posted there of her . For months I just looked at them . But that empty void insite me got stronger. I found her Tik Tok account and created a fake girl account with which I tried to befriend her online. And it worked. She allowed this account to follow her Instagram. And I asked for every detail I wanted to know about her. I screenshoted everything. Her posts,who she follows, alll comments, what she liked etc. , every story she made I had many USB sticks full of material . I stalked her mother and found her workplace. I walked past this place very often. On her internet site her mother had posted a picture of her workers in her garden. My crush posted the garden too and I used google maps and compared every! House in the city till I found hers... Then I multiple times went there to stalk her. At my workplace, to my friends, to my mother...I told everyone that we are dating. I told lies over lies. I am so convincing they still believe my lies even though it’s been one year since I stared lying. Now I realised what I did. I feel horrible. All I wanted was to have her as my girlfriend. I didn’t wanted to ham her. I read about stalking but I never wanted to hurt her. It was not at all sexual . I have never though about her in a sexual way. I just could not be one hour without her. I love her.. A few days ago we meet again at a class meeting from our school. In therpay I changed. I am not that loser anymore . I have a job, I do sport, I have hobbies, many friends, I am not the crazy creepy loner I was back then. I noticed that she really licked the new me and she wanted to meet again. We are meeting us since a few weeks and i have never been more in love. I noticed that she is too and that’s the problem . I have to tell her what I did. But this would break her trust in people forever. I don’t want to loose her . But I can’t just date her after what I have done... What should I do? Seriously ! (Sorry for my English it’s not my first language )
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Pretty open to any reasonable offers. Typically trade for what I don't already have.
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DISNEY / MARVEL (USA / CANADA) (All Titles Will Port to MA)
Avengers: Endgame HD GP Split
Captain Marvel HD GP
Cars 2 SD iTunes Redeem (Will Port to MA)
Planes HD MA Split
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4K CATALOG TITLES
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Fast & Furious 6 (Extended Edition) 4K iTunes Redeem (Will Port to MA) Split
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Now You See Me 2 4K iTunes Redeem (Lionsgate) (Will not Port to MA) Split
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2021.11.29 12:02 BrettBoiss [Letter]How I've Been Curing Lifelong Social Anxiety

Good morning Mr. Jordan Peterson, and fellow fans.
I think this post could really help a lot of people to overcome social anxiety, because I think that many people who are uncomfortable in social situations also struggle with the same negative personal traits, behavioral tendencies, bad mindsets and thought patterns that I struggled with but have found practical strategies for (with many thanks to you).
In the theme of Jordan Peterson, and because he has a lot to do with much of the content in this post, consider this a 10 Rules For Life for the Socially Anxious.
This is a compilation of 10 strategies that I personally use, which have helped me go from:
-someone who was always extremely uncomfortable around others
someone who felt a massive barrier to connecting with others
INTO
someone that loves to be with people and can joke around, enjoy others company, and make really good genuine connections.
It is an understatement to say that these specific and very practical behavioral changes have drastically improved my life and I'm hoping they can for anyone else who wants to improve their social and mental well being.
Here are 10 things that helped me.

  1. Listen intently to people when they are talking to me and do NOTHING else.
  2. Be deliberately fun/friendly, genuine, honest, and loving to others to connect with them.
  3. Share more. Anything interesting.
  4. Be assertive/take initiative. Know my wants and needs, and express them.
  5. Don't live with emotionally unstable people.
  6. Experience more in life, as much as I can handle. Be more open to new experiences.
  7. Prioritize physical well being.
  8. PRESENCE. Don't get caught up in negative self thinking.
  9. Keep myself busy by working on things that matter most to me as often as possible.
  10. Overcome fear of rejection by taking more chances and learn to expect some rejection.
That was the TLDR.

I think this post will be most beneficial to people who are:
-painfully shy
-uncomfortable in social situations
-having difficulty connecting with others
-feeling disrespected for being too passive
-feeling like they're missing out in life due to these difficulties
-experiencing depression and anxiety due to these difficulties

Some of these strategies may be more useful/important for you to work on than others. There might be more strategies that I have not listed here as well that may really help you. For this reason I am writing from my own viewpoint to share with you my experiences, difficulties, and what has helped ME.
The rest of this post will be going into detail on each of these behavioral changes.
  1. Listen intently to people when they are talking to me and do NOTHING else. Oftentimes when people would talk to me, I wasn't listening very great at all. I thought I was, but I wasn't. This is why. I was trying to listen, while also trying to make sure I'm making enough eye contact, and trying to come up with what I'm going to say when they are done talking. That is WAY too much to try to focus on at once and I would fail to do well at any of those. You really can only focus on one thing at a time. In order for conversation to work for me, I NEED to devote all of my attention to what the other person is communicating to me when they are speaking.

  1. Be deliberately fun/friendly, genuine, honest, and loving to others to connect with them. This is a mindset shift, that I feel has been extremely helpful to get me to enjoy being in the company of others. Before deliberately trying to be fun and friendly with people, I was instead focused on my insecurities (which were mostly these: my appearance, people telling me I'm so quiet, feeling socially inadequate). By literally telling myself to try to be a fun friendly person, I have been able too feel much more comfortable and enjoy social settings so much more.

  1. Share more. Anything interesting. I did not share much with people at all, and it seems obvious why this is bad, but I was so unaware of how much this was absolutely crippling me socially. I've been aware that I have anxiety issues for a while, and I was someone who wanted to avoid having attention on me, so I didn't share much at all. So now I am sharing more. Even the simplest of things. I will tell someone one fun thing I did on the weekend or some time recently. Something that I watched that I found interesting. The point is, I'm sharing now even if it's just a little bit interesting.
This has been so important for my ability to start conversations and so effective to get myself to connect with people. I'm just sharing what I found interesting. What did I think, What did I feel? I Include this stuff when sharing. I share from my point of view. This is what I saw, what I was doing, how I felt, etc. I now share often, but keep it relatively short and sweet. I don't always expect that to have a good interaction or conversation with someone that it has to be a very deep and/or lengthy conversation. Sometimes I just make observational comments to my friends family, acquaintances, strangers if it is something interesting, and it can serve as a good conversation starter.

  1. Be assertive/take initiative. Know my wants and needs, and express them. These all tie in together for me. THIS ONE IS HUGE. I was the opposite of assertive. But now I am trying to be a lot more assertive. This is how I am going about it. I am constantly trying to be more aware of what I want/need and and once I figure that out, go after it. Take initiative to do what I want rather than having to check or worry what someone else says about it. Don't let anyone hold me back in life, or let myself think anyone can do that. I have to take full control and responsibility for my life's direction.
Tying into assertiveness, I am also working on implementing a conflict resolution strategy. Previously I avoided conflict as much as possible because I was used to ignoring what I wanted for the most part. I could rationalize to myself to tolerate things that I shouldn't have and did not need to tolerate if I was able to speak up about it. I would rationalize that saying something wasn't worth the conflict and ALWAYS wanted to be non confrontational. I have completely scrapped that way of thinking. In conflict, I can't always just tell someone what I want/need from them. I need to do more than that. So here it is. If there is something someone is doing that is bothering me, first I find out what emotion the issue is making me feel. Then I tell the person, I feel (emotion) because of (the thing they're doing that's not okay) I want you to stop. If applicable I then tell them what I want them to do instead. E.g. I'm getting annoyed when you talk over me, can you try not to cut me off? I am realizing I can confront people by doing this, and as long as they are reasonable, it won't turn into a huge argument like I was worried about happening (maybe due to living with someone who is short tempered, self important, and unpredictable).
If it's something I need/want from a person, I MAKE SURE I tell them. Often times it is very simple. So here's a simple example. At work I needed to roll a cart to where someone was standing. So I simply told him, "I want to put this cart there." He moved for me. I thanked him. This is the smallest of examples but honestly, before working on being assertive and communicating effectively in this way, I may have had a difficult time asking him to move...because I was WAY more concerned about making sure I don't bother anyone (and coming up with the best wording of how to ask him to move) than I was about WHAT I WANT. There's a pretty good chance I wouldn't have decided on the perfect sentence and would have just been awkwardly standing near him for a while before finally attempting to deliver my super scripted sentence. Simply stating what I want/need to the person that needs to know has been incredibly useful in plenty of situations.

  1. Don't live with emotionally unstable people. Especially if they have a dominant personality and are controlling, pessimistic, have anger issues, are unpredictable, etc. Growing up, a close family member of mine had these bad qualities, and drank often. I felt a lot of shame and anxiety on a regular basis from being around this person too much and taking things they would say to heart. Once I moved out I started to feel SO much better emotionally because I was getting away from the negativity, and I have a much better relationship with this person. Do not underestimate the importance of this strategy. I honestly think you can work on each and every one of these strategies, but if you are living with someone who can really derail your emotional wellbeing and bring you into negative thought patterns, then as long as you live with them you won't be getting better nearly as much as you will once you create space from people that are like this (my experience, my opinion!). To add to this, I don't think it's useful at all to focus my mental energy on how someone else has been keeping me down. Playing the victim serves no good purpose. For me, it is best to use presence (explained below in #8) and focus on things I can do to improve instead of focusing on other peoples negativity.

  1. Experience more in life, as much as I can handle. I believe experiencing more is LIVING more. I find that I learn so much when trying something new that I want to try. Figure out things I want to try doing and plan to do it. I think it also helps to remember experiences better and to articulate myself by keeping a journal and writing it as if I am sharing it with someone (again, what I found interesting, from my point of view). Writing it in that style. Doing more things and journaling gives me a lot more to share, and less time spent sitting around over-thinking/over analyzing.

  1. Prioritize physical well being. Wake up at the same time every morning. Eat a good diet, keep an exercise routine, stay well hydrated. It's a no brainer but there are tremendous benefits in all aspects of life to be in good physical shape including socially! More energetic, better mood, clearer thinking, better posture, feeling more accomplished, less anxious. Don't deplete my dopamine by...drinking a ton of coffee, watching porn, binging video games, smoking weed, eating too much sugar, drinking a lot of beer, there's a ton of ways to deplete dopamine. I am feeling my best when I make a serious effort to restrict my guilty pleasures.

  1. PRESENCE. Don't get caught up in negative self thinking. Notice when I am having these negative types of thoughts. Recognize they are not doing anything useful for me. Tell these thoughts to fuck off, and go back to what is in front of me in the present moment. Focus on my surroundings. Try to notice things that I see, hear, smell. Relax my body. It is such a relief to do this when I am so used to putting myself down in my own head. I have also found it very healing to go and work on something (literally anything productive) if I find myself sitting around getting too caught up in my head. I told my brother about doing this whole presence thing, and he said it's good but it's kind of like trying to kick Barney from the Simpsons out of Moe's tavern because the negative thoughts just keep coming back. And they certainly did keep coming back a lot at first for me, because I was so used to thinking these negative self thought patterns. But eventually they would come back less and less. I still am kicking these thoughts out quite regularly but it is just for a moment and then it is done with! Being present is also a great tool for socializing. I have started conversations by making comments on my observations. Observations I may not normally have made, because I was so used to being in my head.

  1. Keep myself busy working on things that matter most to me as often as possible. Working on different items on a list such as this has helped. I also keep a to do list of simple day to day tasks that I should get done to keep me busy. Maybe I am neurotic but I get uneasy and start to feel like a piece of shit if I start slacking. A big example of something for me to work on that mattered a lot to me was learning to cook. I just felt like I was inadequate (not up to my own standards) and more of a helpless child than an independent adult before I learned to make my own meals. It has done wonders for my self image to move out and be independent. This is one example but there is so much more for me to work on (career, day to day stuff, social connections). I need to feel like I am doing everything I can to improve my life to earn the right to feel proud of myself and keep negative self thoughts away.

  1. Overcome fear of rejection by taking more chances and learn to expect some rejection. I still have a lot of work to do on this one so I do not feel very knowledgeable with this one. It is still pretty intimidating to put myself in situations where I might have to get rejected from a romantic interest. On the plus side, I have noticed it is still a big relief and still a good confidence boost just to ask for a date or an interview/whatever even if I do get rejected. At this point in my life, I know I will feel worse if I cower out of the possibility to get rejected. So, I am starting to take advantage of opportunities even if it's more likely that I WILL be rejected. I don't know what good it would have done for me to try getting used to rejection before implementing some of these other strategies first such as learning to use presence, finding my ways of making the best use of my time (because I find that rejection doesn't hurt as much if I have plenty of other things going on in my life). I saved this strategy for last because it's been much easier for me to deal with a little rejection once I had already been working on other strategies from this post. It is becoming more apparent to me that being able to 1. ask for something that you want (a date/an interview perhaps) and 2. face rejection without getting super affected, is super important to eventually obtain some success in getting what you want.

I'm writing this because I think it's some info that could help people climb out of the same hole I got myself into by falling into poor habits at a young age (13 or so), developing negative mindsets, not having much direction, and not knowing what was going wrong for me in these areas of my life, when I began to hate what was once my favorite hobby that I used to spend all my time on and suddenly quit. At the same time I was becoming pretty indifferent to most things in life because I lacked other interests. And then I stayed in this indifferent, borderline depressed state for 10 YEARS+ (since before high school began, and into early adulthood. All I started to do was game and watch TV. Suffering hard for it in my social life. I had to get into some periods of pretty serious depression and feelings of hopelessness before I found my strategies and started to implement them. I have to not be self destructive and I did myself no good with a lot of bad habits. Some of those bad habits are: sitting around alone being in my own head way too much (rather than having something else to do), beating myself up over failing so bad socially, not exercising, avoiding contact with friends and family. Not being very open to new experiences. Being extremely passive.

I feel a lot more comfortable around people, I think people are more comfortable around me and respect me more. I respect myself more. My usual self talk went from something along the lines of believing "I'm a good for nothing lonely loser" to, "I am doing the best that I can and I am a great person". My conversations are improving tremendously. I am making great progress at being someone that can start conversations and connect with people, and working on these strategies is making such an incredible difference in how much I am enjoying life.

One last thing I want to say is, do the things that makes you happy, and don't avoid being social! Best of luck to all.

Over a year ago I made a very similar post with a different reddit account that was pretty well received. This post is an expansion of my original post.

Original post found here

https://www.reddit.com/socialskills/comments/hkcgne/painfully_shy_like_me_this_is_making_an/
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2021.11.29 12:02 Voxmanns Recent Thought on Songwriting and Originality

Recently, I discussed with my mentor a topic which I was very wary of and had affected my songwriting for years. The topic was plagiarism and how to know if my song is too similar to another song. His response was simple, "Give credit where it's due and there's no plagiarism." Of course, this was a great place to start (he really likes giving me the start to the full answer and letting me noodle on it) but I needed to dig deeper for my full answer.
Last night, I began thinking about music a little bit differently. Before, I thought of songwriting as purely an act of creation. I.E I thought that my songs and everything within them were something I created or approached in a creative way. I realize now that this is true for some aspects of a given song but not necessarily all aspects of a given song.
I started thinking of music less as an act of creation driven by originality, and more so an act of exploration. I might discover a melody on guitar that I love and then go "Oh, this was also in x song" and that's something to rejoice - not worry about. I just so happened to set foot in the same place as another writer did that 100s of others likely have as well. I may even come up with a melody that I don't recognize from any piece of work. However, I'd wager it would be very similar if not exactly the same as some song's melody somewhere out there.
Once I saw songwriting from this angle, I realized it is no different stumbling onto the idea with a guitar as it is hearing the idea in a song and saying "I want to work with that." The beauty is that if you take that one phrase or riff or what-have-you, there are hundreds of other pieces you will have to consciously and subconsciously decide on as you make the rest of the song - none of which you will do the exact same way the original artist did. You'll make hundreds of steps other artists have made but in a different order than they did, like a combination lock, and this will ultimately be your song. The pieces themselves may not be original, but the collection of those pieces will be entirely unique and entirely original for all of eternity.
Maybe I'm just wildly rambling and this will get a "alrighty bud" response from most but this has really shifted my view of art and music. I see it more like a collage or mining. I'm really curious to hear what others think. Do you see it similarly?
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2021.11.29 12:02 masbond84 [2021.11.22~2021.11.28] Prime-time Drama Viewership Ratings

Monday-Tuesday
Network Drama Day/Time Episode Rating
KBS2 The King's Affection Mon/9.30 p.m. E13 10.0%
Tue/9.30 p.m. E14 9.6%
JTBC Idol: The Coup Mon/11.00 p.m. E05 0.5%
Tue/11.00 p.m. E06 0.7%
tvN Secret Royal Inspector & Jo Mon/10.30 p.m. E05 4.5%
Tue/10.30 p.m. E06 4.2%
Wednesday-Thursday
Network Drama Time Episode Rating
KBS2 School 2021 Wed/9.30 p.m. E01 2.8%
Thu/9.30 p.m. E02 1.6%
JTBC Reflection of You Wed/10.30 p.m. E13 2.7%
Thu/10.30 p.m. E14 2.6%
tvN Melancholia Wed/10.30 p.m. E05 2.0%
Thu/10.30 p.m. E06 1.5%
Friday-Sunday
Network Drama Day/Time Episode Rating
KBS2 Drama Special 2021 Fri/11.25 p.m. E04 0.7%
KBS2 Young Lady and Gentleman Sat/7.55 p.m. E19 28.5%
Sun/7.55 p.m. E20 31.3%
MBC The Red Sleeve Fri/9.50 p.m. E05 8.8%
Sat/9.50 p.m. E06 9.4%
SBS We are Breaking Up Fri/10.00 p.m. E05 7.0%
Sat/10.00 p.m. E06 7.6%
SBS Let Me Be Your Knight Sun/10.45 p.m. E04 1.2%
JTBC Inspector Koo Sat/10.30 p.m. E09 N.A.
Sun/10.30 p.m. E10 N.A.
tvN Happiness Fri/10.40 p.m. E07 3.5%
Sat/10.40 p.m. E08 3.3%
tvN Jirisan Sat/9.00 p.m. E11 7.6%
Sun/9.00 p.m. E12 8.1%
OCN Chimera Sat/10.30 p.m. E09 1.1%
Sun/10.30 p.m. E10 2.1%
Note: "Inspector Koo" didn't air this week. A highlight special was instead shown.
Highest & Lowest Rating in Show history KBS2' The King's Affection: 10.0% (E13)

MBC' The Red Sleeve: 9.4% (E06)
SBS' Let Me Be Your Knight: 1.2% (E04)
JTBC' Idol: The Coup: 0.5% (E05)
tvN' Melancholia: 1.5% (E06)
tvN' Jirisan: 7.6% (E11)
OCN' Chimera: 2.1% (E10)
Note: For dramas that has multiple parts, the part with the highest rating is used. Ratings from the 2nd week of broadcast is used for this section
*Ratings are from Nielsen Korea (Nationwide area), taken from Naver and Daum.
*N.A.: not aired, N.R.: Not rated (too low) or not reported, TBA: To be announced.
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2021.11.29 12:02 PsychologyKitchen114 CEMI is primed and ready for action.

Another COVID play. Micro cap. Easy!
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2021.11.29 12:02 Date-A-Live-UwU A wish for a collab

I just wish...
Only wishing...
Please add Floor of Lava 👉👈
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